When you hear people say to be your own advocate, BE YOUR OWN ADVOCATE! I picked up all of my medical records from Dr. D's today because I was planning on getting a second opinion, which I still am. But after going through all my paper work, which is literally hundreds of pages, I came across two important pages that Dr. D never informed us of. On 07/08/09, C had a s/a done. He had high #'s... 276 mil, a 4out of 4 on moltility, BUT only 8% morphology this equals Moderate Teratozoospermia. i.e 92% of his sperm is mishaped and cannot either reach my egg or penetrate it! I cannot believe it! How did this happen!? I can't believe we went through all of this heartache of IUI's and BFN's for nothing!!!
We are still going to get a second opinion. I have an appointment tomorrow with one RE and another next week. Dr. D was right... IVF may be in our future. Through research, I found that is what is recommended, possibly with ICSI. However I am pissed that he NEVER mentioned this. This should have been our FIRST recommendation not our last resort. It would have been emotionally better on us all. I think he somehow over looked it. This sucks, but at least I finally have some answers (and its not all me! ha!)!